Sunday, March 1, 2009

5 Tips to Help You Reconcile With Your Ex

Getting your ex back after a bad breakup can be really difficult if you're like most people and have no idea where to even begin. 95% of freshly-separated people like you are going through the same troubles, and here are some tips to help you through some of the pitfalls of this tough time.








1. Distance is important! It's smart to take about a month off from your ex completely after a breakup, to allow for healing on both sides and a chance to get yourself in order for the campaign to win him or her back. This means NO contact at all, if at all possible!








2. Depression is natural and acceptable, but letting it run your life and hold you down is NOT. If you're going to even recover from this breakup, much less get your ex back and find happiness again, you're going to have to forge ahead no matter how poorly you feel. Turn your misery and loneliness into motivation to succeed!








3. The fight isn't to change your ex, but to change yourself. I know that doesn't seem fair, but right now asking anything of your ex is too much, at the risk of placing too much pressure on him or her and making the gap between you even bigger. Do everything you can on your end first, and your ex is sure to follow once it's obvious how hard you've worked. Both sides will end up compromising, but you have to initiate!








4. Take care of yourself! It's easy to let yourself go during a rough time like this, but staying healthy and active (both physically and socially) is important right now. Boosting morale and confidence, regularly exercising and staying socially active with your friends will empower you to rise above your pain and accomplish things you didn't think you had the strength to.








5. I strongly advise against "winging it" when it comes to getting your ex back. To go into this without a plan would be a very big mistake, as thinking on your feet becomes very hard when you're dealing with someone who raises up so much emotion. Get some help if you need to, but make sure you have a plan to get your ex back.








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1 comment:

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